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A Forgiveness Test

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do you ever find yourself making statements like these?

"He broke a promise."

"It was so embarrassing."
"I was cheated out of a lot of money!"

Nancy: It's possible to live with unforgiveness for so long that we don't even realize it's there.

"She lied to me—to me!"
"I can't believe he was cheating on me."

Nancy: Would you take a moment and let God search your heart? Is there anything or anyone that you are unwilling to forgive?

"My grown children never even call me."

Nancy: Ephesians 4 says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."

"The hurt is real."
"I do choose to forgive."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Unforgiving Servant

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Is there some particular person you're finding it really hard to forgive?

"I feel like my sister betrayed me. We argued, and then she convinced my daughter-in-law to join her side. Now forgiveness is great, but not in this situation."

Nancy: Jesus tells a story that tells us some important things about forgiveness. He described a servant who owed the king a lot of money—millions and millions of dollars in today's terms. The king could have thrown the servant in jail, but he showed mercy. But then as soon as that debtor was free, he found someone else who owed him a day's wage and had him locked up. When the king found out, he was furious and he said, "Shouldn't you have had mercy on your fellow servant as I had mercy on you?"

Is there someone you need to forgive? When we think about how much God has forgiven us, how can we withhold forgiveness from someone else?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Forgiving Our Debtors

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

"God was doing something in my husband's life. He came to me and asked me to forgive him. He told me that he had been involved in homosexual relationships—even after we were married. How could I forgive something like that?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: We're all going to be treated badly at times. It's an unavoidable reality of life. The important question is: How are we going to respond when we are wounded?

Forgiveness isn't natural, but we've got to remember how greatly we sinned against God and how much He has forgiven us.

"But God started to show me my own failures."

Nancy: We've said the Lord's Prayer lots of times, but living it out is another thing. We say, "Forgive us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors."

"And I need to offer the same kind of forgiveness that I have been given."

Nancy: Learning to forgive is what happens when we truly start seeking Him.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Walls of Hostility

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do your relationships reflect what you believe about God?

"When we go on witnessing trips, Linda and I have to be in separate groups or we'll be at each other all day."

Nancy: If we're not right with each other, why would someone want to listen to what we have to say about God?

"I think it started when we were on the mission's committee together. We just never saw eye to eye."

Nancy: In the book of Ephesians, the apostle Paul addressed some divisions in the church. Paul says this about Jesus. "He himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility."

Have you allowed the Lord to break down walls of hostility between you and other believers? Making things right won't just give you freedom, it will also bring glory to God. If there is someone you need to be reconciled with, why not humble yourself and seek their forgiveness. You'll be demonstrating the power of the Gospel.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Unto the Least

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

"I've loved the Lord for 37 years."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: We show whether we really love Jesus by the way we treat other people.

"I just can't stand being around Linda. Do you know what I heard about her yesterday?"

Nancy: In Matthew 25 Jesus commends those who have met His needs. He says, "As you did it to the least of these my brothers, you did it to me."

In other words, when we help someone in need, it's like we're helping the Lord Himself. He takes what we do for others personally.

If we really believe this, I bet we'd be more careful about how we treat others. Would we lie to Jesus? Gossip about Him? Give Him the silent treatment? Jesus says, "As you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me."

As you meet people today, try picturing Jesus in their place. It will affect your words and actions.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

A Clear Conscience

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: The Bible tells us about an event that may seem strange in our current political climate.

Near the end of his life, the prophet Samuel stood before all the people of Israel and said, "Here I am; testify against me before the LORD and before his anointed. Whose ox have I taken? . . . Whom have I oppressed? Or from whose hand have I taken a bribe to blind my eyes with it? Testify against me and I will restore it to you." The people responded, "You have not defrauded us or oppressed us or taken anything from any man's hand."

Samuel ended his public service with a clear conscience. He didn't have anything to hide. He didn't have to put a good spin on a flawed record. Are you living in a way today that will give you a clear conscience tomorrow?

Being dishonest and covering your sin will only lead to shame. But if you are repentant and honest, you can look forward to years of joy ahead.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

A Step Forward

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Every time we disobey God, it's like taking a step away from Him.

"God's wants me to forgive people, and I can pretty much forgive everybody. But I cannot forgive my ex-husband."

Nancy: Obedience can take a few different forms. For example, there are things we know God wants us to do, but just haven't done them yet.

"How can I possibly take one day of rest a week?"
"I never truly honored my parents."

Nancy: Obedience might include stopping some things we know God doesn't want us to do.

"If my wife knew what I was looking at online—mmmm."

Nancy: Obedience also means removing any limits for what we are willing to do for God.

"If following You means moving to a new city, I'll do it, Lord."

Nancy: Are there some things you know you need to do? Why not take a step closer to God today in obedience?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Taking Pains

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

"As I drew closer to God, my conscience started bothering me."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Having a clear conscience is an important key to personal and corporate revival.

"See, I was a defense contractor, and years earlier I had lied about my security clearance."

Nancy: A right relationship with God will affect our relationship with everyone else.

"I amended my paperwork with a note explaining that I had given my life to Jesus, and I needed to confess that I had lied about past drug use."

Nancy: Clearing your conscience may be one of the hardest things you've ever had to do. But with every step, you'll experience God's grace.

"I lost my security badge; my desk got moved out in the hall."

Nancy: The apostle Paul said, "I always take pains to have a clear conscience toward both God and man." Does that describe you?

"Finally, the FBI cleared me, and I never regretted telling the truth."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Megadoses

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Have you heard the debate in the health community about megadoses of vitamins? Some people think large doses of vitamins cure all kinds of diseases, and other doctors warn that too many vitamins can be toxic.

But there's no debate about megadoses of Scripture. You just can't go wrong taking in the Word of God.

Sometimes I like to vary my devotional routine and move through the Bible more quickly than normal. It's like getting a megadose of Scripture.

Taking megadoses of God's Word in quickly will give you a panoramic view of God's plan. You'll see the themes that run like rivers from Genesis to Revelation. You can appreciate the entire story, and you start to see Jesus on every page.

Reading the Bible slowly and meditating on individual verses can be helpful. But if you feel like you're stuck in a devotional rut, why not try getting a megadose?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Preparing for a Holy City

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"You're selling this in the garage sale?"
"I didn't think you use it anymore."
"Honey! That's a decorative spoon from Pike's Peak!"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Getting rid of things can be hard.

"I could use that!"

Nancy: I remember when our ministry was getting ready to move into a new building. We tossed all kinds of unnecessary files, obsolete equipment, and worn-out furniture. It was a great chance to get rid of some clutter.

Do you know that we can start to collect clutter in our spiritual lives? We'll be moving to a new, eternal home. Revelation 21:27 describes Heaven by saying, "Nothing unclean will ever enter it."

In light of where you're headed, is there any clutter in your life? Habits or attitudes that don't have any place in the holy city of Heaven? If so, confess them to God. Ask Him to help you get ready to live in a place where there's no sin.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Esther's Approach

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: You know the story of Queen Esther. No one came before the king without being invited. But Esther risked her life and went to the king to plead for the Jewish people.

The Bible says, "When the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, she obtained favor in his sight, and the king held out to Esther the golden scepter." The king showed mercy. He said, "What is it, Queen Esther? What is your request?"

I think that may be a picture of the way we approach God in prayer. God is far greater than that pagan king. Who are we to come to Him with our small problems?

But the King has chosen us. He loves us. He wants us to come because He fulfills His plans through the prayers of His people.

God's more glorious than any earthly king, but He wants you to come before Him in prayer. If you come to Him in the righteousness of Christ, He'll extend His golden scepter and let you approach.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Stir It Up

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Are you ever a source of temptation to those around you?

"My husband feels convicted about doing work around the house on Sundays. But when I need something done, I have my ways of making it happen."

Nancy: As women, we have a lot of influence. Maybe that's why Satan targeted the woman with his lies back in the Garden of Eden. She influenced her husband to sin, and generations to follow were affected.

As women, we're still bombarded with the enemy's lies. They come in everything from magazines and movies to counselors and friends. When we act on the lies, we influence other people to act on them, too. We continue the deception.

But if we fill our minds with the Word of God and act on His truth, we'll do just the opposite. As the writer of Hebrews tells us, we need to "consider how to stir up one another to love and good works."

Would you think about your relationships? What are you stirring up?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Seeing God's Holiness

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: While writing a book on holiness, I began to pray this prayer:

Oh God,
Show me more of Your holiness.
Show me more of my sinfulness.
Help me to hate sin and to love righteousness as You do.
And make me holy as You are holy.

God answered that prayer by starting to expose sin in my heart--things like not controlling my tongue, my appetite, or my spending habits, and loving myself more than I love others. The more we see God's holiness, the more we'll be grieved by sin.

First Corinthians 15:34 says, "Awake to righteousness, and do not sin." God can awaken a new love for righteousness in your heart. Could I challenge you to pray a prayer like that for the next 30 days? Ask God to give you a deeper conviction of sin and to show you more of His holiness.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Praise Brings His Glory

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Why should we praise the Lord? One reason is that it brings us into the presence of God.

When King Solomon dedicated the temple, there was a massive choir along with 120 trumpets and other instruments. The choir sang, "The Lord is good; His love endures forever." During this praise service, we read that "the glory of the Lord filled the temple."

Just as God's glory filled Solomon's temple, He can fill us, too. We connect with Him just as the Israelites did—through praise.

If you're feeling spiritually dry—like your temple isn't displaying much glory—try praising God. You don't have to have a huge choir or 120 trumpets, but you do need a heart that praises Him. Remember, true praise takes us into the presence of God and brings down His glory.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Search Me

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: We spend a lot of time examining our lives.

"I always check my makeup after lunch."
"In the morning when I step on the scale and I see that I've lost a pound or two—I get so excited!"
"Tuesday is bill night. My wife and I balance the checkbook, pay bills, and talk about stuff."

Nancy: When is the last time you evaluated your life—spiritually? Are you allowing the Bible to be a mirror, showing you areas where you need to change? Are you measuring your spiritual progress? Are you more like Jesus today than you were a year ago?

Keeping close watch on our health and finances is important. But there's nothing more important than saying with the psalmist, "Oh God, search my heart, try me, know me. See if there be any wicked way in me."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Love vs. Jealousy

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: First Corinthians 13 is known as, "The Love Chapter" in the Bible. It gives us characteristics of genuine love. One of those is: "Love does not envy." Let's dig a little deeper into what that means.

When you truly love, you're content with the basic necessities of life—you hold everything else loosely. When you truly love, you realize that you have an amazing gift—a right relationship with God. What more do you really need?

This kind of love helps you to be thankful when you do get something new. And this kind of love protects you from getting angry with a friend who gets a new set of living room furniture or a raise at work.

Have you put your faith in Christ to take away your sin and bring you into a right relationship with God? That's the first step in having true love—the kind that doesn't envy.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

My Sin Isn't Really That Bad . .

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Those of us who've grown up in the church are prone to a certain kind of deception. It's the lie that, "My sin isn't really that bad."

"(Sigh) I overspent again this month—well, I guess I'm just a natural-born shopper!"

Nancy: When we compare ourselves to people who commit what we consider "serious" sins, we can feel like we're okay.

"I can't believe she would leave her husband like that! Now, I know it's not right to gossip, but let me just tell you what really happened . . ."

Nancy: We need to realize that every single sin is a big deal. It's an act of rebellion against God.

"Well, I guess it's just that Irish temper again . . ."

Nancy: The way to see the truth about sin is to see it in the light of who God is. When the prophet Isaiah came face-to-face with God, he said, "Woe is me," and he confessed his sinfulness. Why don't you ask God to search your heart today? Ask Him to show you what it looks like in light of His holiness.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Biblical Activities

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: How do you decide what your priorities should be on any given day?

"I honestly don't think too much about it. All I know is that I've got a lot to do!"
"I usually follow the Herzberg-Martin Three-Fold Plannning System."
"The TV Guide helps a lot!"

Nancy: Have you ever thought about letting the Bible help guide your to-do list?

". . .well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of the saints . . ." (1 Timothy 5:10).

Nancy: Is your life marked by compassion, sacrifice, and acts of service?

". . . to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands . . ." (Titus 2:5).
"Teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good" (Titus 2:3).

Nancy: Is your life an example to younger women? Are you involved in teaching the next generation? Are you getting to know the Word of God and letting it guide your to-do list?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Spiritually Mature

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Spiritual maturity doesn't just happen.

"I just wish I could be like . . . like Billy Graham! But I could never be as spiritual as him."

Nancy: Some people do seem so much more mature than we do. But as I've read the biographies of many great Christians of the past, I realize something. They've all had to go through a process of growth just like you and I do. Spiritual maturity doesn't just happen. No one wakes up one morning to discover they've become mature.

The heroes of the faith followed a process of submitting to the Lord, obeying Him, and getting to know His Word. There's nothing keeping you from doing the same thing. You might not end up having the visibility of a Billy Graham, but someday you may be the one that others consider spiritually mature.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

My Husband Isn't Supportive

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"My husband doesn't support my daily quiet time with God. I try to do it when he's not home, but then he asks why I don't get more done. What should I do?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: First you need to understand what's at the heart of your husband's frustration. You might ask yourself some questions like:

Have I been meeting my family's practical needs?
Am I spending time with my husband?
Do I listen to him?
Do I show interest in the things he cares about?

First Corinthians 7:14 says that "the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife . . ." That means that God wants to use your life example and your love to help sanctify your husband. As you spend time in the Word and in prayer, ask God to make you a more reverent, loving, kind woman who's attentive to the needs of your family. Let them see that a daily quiet time can make you a better wife and mother.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Memories and Compassion

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"I know that I'm supposed to forgive and forget. And God has helped me to forgive—but forget? That's a different story when someone has hurt you really bad."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: We're called to forgive others as God has forgiven us. God is all-knowing, so He can't forget anything. But when He forgives, He promises never to hold our sins against us again. We're called to do the same.

Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean that we forget every painful memory, but that can actually be good. Those memories can help us be tenderhearted and compassionate toward others who hurt.

There may be a lot of hurt in your past. But if you let Him, God can use those memories for His glory. You may even be able to use those very experiences to help someone else who's been wounded.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Transformation

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Some churches have started having "Harvest Parties" in October, where kids can dress up in costumes and have fun. But that's not the only time people wear costumes to church.

Some people are selfish, angry, bitter, and lazy all week. Then they put on a "good Christian" mask before coming to church. But that costume doesn't make them more like Jesus.

Imagine a girl in a butterfly costume. It may be cute, but it doesn't make her a butterfly. On the other hand, when a caterpillar wraps itself in a cocoon and emerges as a butterfly, real transformation has taken place. That's what Christ offers us—real transformation.

Permanent transformation is what Christ offers us. Second Corinthians 3:18 says, "We are being transformed into his likeness."

Are you ready to be transformed? Then take off your mask, confess your sin, and ask God to make you like Jesus.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Be Blessed and Be a Blessing

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When God blesses us, He doesn't intend for us to just keep those blessings to ourselves. He gives to us so we can be channels of blessing to others. I've often said to young people as we were parting ways, "Now remember, be blessed and be a blessing."

That's similar to what God said to Abram in Genesis chapter 12. After calling him to a new land, God said, "I will make you a great nation. I will bless you, and you shall be a blessing."

Ultimately, we have been greatly blessed by Abram, since God used the nation that he birthed to usher in the Messiah.

How has God blessed you? Has he given you food, a job, a home? Freedom to worship? Freedom from sin? How can you share those things with others and become a channel for God's blessing?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Schedule

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"5:00 a.m.—go to the gym. 6:00 a.m.—get the kids ready for school.

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: As women, we fall for this idea that we can "do it all."

"11:00—I've got to write the Jorgensen report. Then by noon I've got to run those cupcakes over to the school."

Nancy: Women who think they're supposed to juggle every task that comes along usually end up frazzled and frustrated.

"Um, 5:00—I've got to cook something at least a little healthy for dinner. And then 5:27 I've got to take Sarah over to her piano lessons.

Nancy: But when we understand what God wants us to do and ask for His help, it leads to freedom and joy.

"6:30—I've got that school fund-raiser meeting and the . . . that means I'm not going to make it to the grocery store until after 7:30. Boy, a lot to do today.

Nancy: What motivates your activities? Are you trying to make a good impression? Is it just that you can't say no? Why don't you ask God what's on His agenda for this season of your life.

"Then finally 1:00 a.m. Go to bed."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss

Feelings Out of Order

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: How much attention do you pay to your conscience? Jonathan Edwards was a great man of God in the 1700s, used in the First Great Awakening. But he knew how prone he was to sin. Here's what he said:

"Whenever my feelings begin to appear in the least out of order� "

Nancy: That means, when something's bothering my conscience�

" �or I am aware of the least irregularity without�"

Nancy: In other words, if I see something in my actions that isn't consistent with God's Word�

"I will subject myself to the strictest examination."

Nancy: I won't let it go on, but I'll identify the sin, confess it to God and walk in freedom.

If you listen to your conscience, even when something small is bothering you, it can help protect you from bigger sins. Take some time today, and make sure you have a clear conscience with God and others.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Name of the Lord

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: One of the greatest ways God reveals Himself to us is through the names given to Him in the Bible.

"Jehovah Nissi—He is our victory. Jehovah Rapha—the God who heals."

Nancy: "The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run into it and are safe."

"El Shaddai—Almighty God."

Nancy: When I get overwhelmed, confused, exhausted, I need a safe place where I can run and be protected. I need the name of the Lord.

"Jehovah Jireh—the Lord will provide."

Nancy: Whatever you're facing, whether it's a hectic schedule, difficult marriage, a lonely apartment—you need a safe place.

"Jehovah Shalom—God our peace."

Nancy: When you feel overwhelmed or discouraged, run to the name of the Lord and be safe.

"Emmanuel—God with us."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Fullness of Joy

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: The Bible calls us to surrender our lives to God, but sometimes we hold back, worried about what we might have to give up.

"Sometimes I feel like if I do what God wants, I won't have any time for fun."

Nancy: The problem is, the things we want to hold onto don't really satisfy.

"I didn't get anything done today!"
"I'll give myself to God—as long as I don't have to give up drinking."

Nancy: We want freedom to do what we want, but sometimes that just puts us in greater bondage.

"Everyone keeps telling me I have a problem with alcohol."

Nancy: Nothing can satisfy our hearts like God Himself. Surrendering to Him could mean giving up some of those things that don't really satisfy. But is that so bad?

As the psalmist said, "You will show me the path of life. In Your presence is fullness of joy. At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore."

Are you working in your own strength for things that don't really satisfy? Or are you trusting God to give you life's richest pleasures?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss

Off the Hook

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"My sister won't admit she's done anything. Can I forgive her if she hasn't asked for forgiveness?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: What keeps you from forgiving?

"Well, doesn't it mean I'm letting her off the hook?"

Nancy: When you forgive someone what you're really doing is taking them off your hook and transferring them to God's hook. Forgiveness acknowledges that God is the judge, and vengeance belongs to Him.

The life of Joseph illustrates this. His brothers sold him into slavery. Years later, when he became the second most powerful leader in Egypt, he had the ability to take vengeance. But he said, "Am I in the place of God?" He chose to trust God and forgive.

If there's someone you refuse to forgive, it really means you're putting yourself in the place of God. So, why not take the offender off your hook and trust the ultimate Judge?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Slaves to Righteousness

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

"Well, I asked God to forgive me today. But, I feel really embarrassed coming to Him over and over again with the same thing. I just feel like a failure."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: The apostle Paul talked about a similar experience in Romans chapter 7. He wanted to do good, but he said, "I see another law at work . . . waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin."

Every true believer wants to please God, but each of us has a flesh that fights against the Spirit living in us. Every time we choose to sin, we're establishing habit patterns that can be hard to break. And if we think we don't have any choice but to sin, that's exactly what we'll do.

The good news of the Gospel is that through Christ we have the power to say no to sin, and yes to God.

"'You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness.' Well, maybe there is hope for me."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss

The Hammer

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

(Digging, huffing, and puffing)

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: It's not easy to break through hard ground.

"How's it coming? Do you have a garden yet?"
"I can't do this. Our backyard is all clay and rocks!"

Nancy: It's even more difficult to break through a hard heart.

"Well, are you coming to the Bible study?"
"Go without me. I've heard it all before."

Nancy: But the Word of God has the power to soften the hardened soil of our hearts.

"Here, let me show you this one; you'll appreciate it. It's Jeremiah 23, and this is God talking."
"'Is not my word like a hammer that breaks the rock in pieces?' Hmmm. That's cool."

Nancy: The same Word that serves as a hammer to break us will then become a balm to heal our hearts. Have you let the Word of God soften your heart today?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

God's Goal

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"It seems like as soon as I repent from one thing, God brings a whole other sin area to my attention! I guess I'm glad, but it's so hard! When can I stop thinking about holiness?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: There are a lot of important reasons to pursue holiness. One of them is that holiness is God's ultimate goal for us. He has eternity in view. He didn't save us just to make our short time on this earth easier. He wants to make us holy as He is holy, so we can perfectly glorify Him and enjoy Him for eternity.

First John 3:2 says, "We know that when He appears we shall be like Him, because we shall see Him as He is."

So what's our response? John goes on: "Everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure."

Are you living in light of God's ultimate goal for your life? Today let's cooperate with God in His eternal goal to make us holy.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Resolved to Be Pure

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do you ever find yourself at the point of a decision?

"I'm not sure if this is right or not?!"

Nancy: There's a question mark in your conscience, but you're not exactly sure what the Bible says about it. Jonathan Edwards anticipated moments like these and wrote:

"Resolved, never to do anything of which I so much as question the lawfulness."

He's saying, "If I have any question in my heart about whether what I'm about to do is acceptable to God and His Word, then I'll stop."

So many of us today try and see how close we can get to sin without getting into serious trouble. Wouldn't we be better off staying as close to purity as we can?

Paul tells us in Romans, "Whatever is not of faith is sin." If there's doubt in your heart that God is giving you freedom to do something, then why do it?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Textbook

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"I just can't please my boss. He's impossible!"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Wouldn't it be great if you could take a class and learn how to handle all of life's problems?

"My husband is just like another child."
"How can we pay all these bills?"

Nancy: Actually, there is a course that addresses every issue you'll ever face. God has given us His textbook, and He's a wise and loving teacher. He wants to meet with you one-on-one and tailor a course for your needs.

Starting a daily devotional habit enrolls you in the course. By spending time reading God's Word and praying, you'll be learning how to handle life's problems in a way that glorifies God.

Psalm 25:8 says, "Good and upright is the Lord; therefore, He instructs sinners in His ways. He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them His way."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Away from the Distractions

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do you ever have trouble getting away from all the distractions and spending time alone with God? Here's what a mom shared with me once:

"I have a sweet memory of our son, John. When he was about 18 months old, he'd get out of his bed each morning and come to find me. The only place in our small house where I could be away from the kids was in our small bathroom.
"I'd go in there every day to have my quiet time with God. John would come up, put his little hand under the door, and hold onto my foot until I finished. Even at that early age, he'd learned that I had to read my Bible every day."

Nancy: Moms, what kind of pattern are your kids seeing? Starting tomorrow, why don't you show them that the words of Psalm 5:3 are true in your life? It says: "In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice. In the morning I lay my requests before you."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Conditional Love

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"My husband and I do everything together."
"Okay, I love her, but . . . it's like she wants me to give her every single waking moment!"
"We have so much fun."
"It's driving me crazy!"
"We just love doing everything together."
"It's like—back off!"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Lust can take different forms. There's the obvious sexual sense. But there's also a form of lust that says, "I love you because of how you make me feel. You fill up a need in my life." It's really conditional love.

This kind of love will last as long as the other person decides he wants to keep filling you up. But the problem is that the hole in your heart is so big that no one but God can truly fill it.

When we go to God for love, we'll never be disappointed. He can fill us up and give us the ability to be givers to other people—no matter what they do, or don't do, for us. That's true love.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Nothing but the Truth

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When God revives a heart, it brings about true humility.

"Revival began in my life when I humbled myself and called a judge's office. Years earlier I'd been a witness in a federal court trial, and I hadn't told the whole truth."

Nancy: In times of revival, God convicts His people of their sin and calls them to repentance.

"God was speaking to my heart about this sin. I had to make it right, even though I knew I might end up in jail."

Nancy: Maybe there's a situation in your life that requires humility. Remember these words from Proverbs 29: "A man's pride will bring him low, but the humble in spirit will retain honor" (verse 23).

"After a total wait of about a year, I got word that neither side wanted to reopen the case. I was a free man. But true freedom had come when I had humbled myself and said yes to God."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Jumping Through Hoops

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Some people think they need to jump through spiritual hoops to earn God's favor.

"When I forget to read the Bible and pray, I don't think God likes me very much."
"I tithe every paycheck; I don't want to make God upset!"
"I just don't feel close to God. Maybe going on that missions trip with my church can help."

Nancy: All those activities are great, but in and of themselves they won't get us closer to God. God isn't interested in hollow religious acts or sacrifices, no matter how impressive they may be.

King David understood that. In Psalm 51 he prayed, "You do not desire sacrifice, or else I would give it. You do not delight in burnt offering."

So what does God care about? David gives the answer in verse 17: "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, a broken and contrite heart. These, O God, You will not despise."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

An Example of Holiness

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"I knew someone who claimed to be a Christian, but he was the meanest guy I knew! I never want to be like him."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Wouldn't it be terrible if someone were discouraged from following Christ because of something they'd seen in us?

"God finally brought someone into my life who told me the truth. More importantly, he lived it."

Nancy: Do you know what your friends and family need from you more than anything else? It isn't your friendship or your acts of service. It's not all your Bible knowledge. They need to see in you a reflection of what God is like.

Jesus prayed for His disciples and He said, "For their sake I consecrate myself, that they also may be sanctified." Jesus chose the pathway of holiness for our sake, so we could be made holy. Are you doing the same thing? Remember, other people are watching.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Rend the Heavens

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Some friends once told me how many churches were in their area. In fact, in their state, one particular denomination had 14,000 churches.

But the crime rate was going up. And the area was plagued with social problems. How could that be, with a church on every corner? Could it be because there is so little sense of God's presence in many of our churches?

The prophet Isaiah realized that his nation desperately needed revival, so he pleaded with God to visit His people. In Isaiah 64, he says, "Oh, that You would rend the Heavens! That You would come down! That the mountains might tremble at Your presence" (verse 1). Oh, that God would do that in our day.

Pray with me. "Lord, please rend the heavens and come down. May mountains of pride and sin tremble at Your presence. Come and visit Your Church, O Lord. Do it for Your glory, amen."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

100 Percent Pure

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 17 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: The makers of Ivory soap pride themselves on making a product that's "99.44 percent pure." Now, that might be great for soap, but when it comes to personal holiness, 99.44 percent pure isn't pure.

First Peter commands us, "Be holy in all your conduct" (1:15). That includes our attitudes and thoughts and outward actions.

To demand 100 percent perfection might seem hopeless. Nobody can be totally perfect—except for Jesus. And we can be completely pure because of His blood and forgiveness.

Through the cross of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, our hearts can be 100 percent pure. Do you want to be 100 percent pure inside and out? If so, ask God to forgive you for every impurity, to cleanse your heart, and to keep you pure.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Where Do We Run?

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: There are lots of oppressors, tyrants in our world—maybe even in your life. Those kinds of people make us want to run and hide. That's how the writer of Psalm 11 felt when he said he wanted to "flee like a bird to your mountain. For look, the wicked bend their bows; they set their arrows to shoot at the upright in heart" (verse 2).

But verse 4 tells us, "The Lord is on His heavenly throne. He observes the sons of men, His eyes examine them." The psalm goes on to talk about the judgment of God.

When I look at sin in the world, I want God to step in and judge evil. But here's the problem: When I really think about it, all too often I'm an oppressor in my heart. I deserve judgment. That's why I need Jesus.

When we see evil, where do we run? Whether you're feeling oppressed or whether you're oppressing others, the answer is the same. Don't run away—instead, run to Jesus.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Put on Love

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 13 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: I would guess that one of the first things you did this morning was pick out your clothes and get dressed. But did you remember to put on love?

No, that's not a new perfume. It's one of the characteristics Paul mentions in Colossians 3, where he says, "Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience" (verse 12).

Wow! Can you imagine what our homes and workplaces would be like if each of us consciously put on those five qualities every morning?

The passage goes on to say, "Above all these put on love which binds everything together in perfect harmony." Love is what pulls the whole outfit together.

How much time do you spend getting dressed in the morning? And how much time do you spend putting on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, and above all—love?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Sitting at the Feet of Jesus

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 12 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"Well, at my house growing up, everybody was always busy doing something. So sitting down to read was considered . . . lazy. Now that I'm grown up, when I read the Bible, I just feel guilty, like I should be doing something."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Working hard to serve the Lord and others is a good thing, but we can do our work more effectively once we've spent time with Christ. In Luke 10 we see that Mary made a conscious choice. Her sister, Martha, was busy in the kitchen, but Mary decided to cultivate her relationship with Jesus. And in response Jesus said, "Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."

We can make the same choice as Mary by spending time in prayer and the Word—even when there are other good things demanding our attention. It's a choice to put Him first, above all other tasks. Have you made that choice today?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Can God Be Trusted?

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

"You know, we've prayed about this for months, and it's pretty clear that I need to quit my job and take the opportunity."
"Well, where's the money going to be coming from a year from now? Don't you think you ought to figure that out first?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do you really believe that God can be trusted?

"I want to see the plan all laid out!"

Nancy: Sometimes I need to remind myself, "God has never once let me down, and He's not going to start now!" God always keeps His promises. And that means we can trust the words of Hebrews 13. God says, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."

Are there any steps God's calling you to take? Do they seem too unpredictable? Remember that God truly is all you need. He's faithful and He will never leave you.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Absence of Love

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: If you look at many conflicts in our world today, you'll find a lack of love. Two countries fighting over a piece of land—there's probably a lack of love. Two groups of congressmen deadlocked—that's probably a lack of love.

The absence of love creates a lot of other problems. It was true in the church at Corinth. The people in the church were tolerating gross sin. They were suing one another, getting drunk during the Lord's Supper, and dividing into bitter factions.

The apostle Paul wrote to this church and tried to deal with some of the problems. What was his main focus? "Follow the way of love."

Just as the absence of love creates a multitude of problems, so the presence of love (that is, the presence of God's agape love) in a church, in a home, in a workplace, in a nation can solve almost every problem you can think of.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Loved to the End

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When the great Russian poet Pushkin finally married in 1831, he said it was the 113th time he had fallen in love. It seems to me that this wordsmith didn't really know the meaning of the word love.

God is love, and He gave us the true definition in His Book. The New Testament uses the word agape to describe the kind of love God has for us and the love we should show one another.

Jesus demonstrated that kind of love when, taking the role of a servant, He stooped down and washed the feet of people He had created. The apostle John tells us the story and says, " Having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end."

Is your conception of love more like the emotionalism of the poet Pushkin? Or is it more like the sacrificial action of Jesus?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Do Angels Grieve?

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Jesus said, "There is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents." I can't help but wonder: If the angels rejoice when we repent, do they grieve when we harden our hearts and do the opposite?

When we reject God's will and His right to rule in our lives, we certainly don't give them any reason to celebrate.

I need to ask myself, "Is my life bringing joy in Heaven? Like the angels, do I get pleasure out of doing God's will? Do I celebrate when I see sinners, including myself, repent and turn from sin?"

Spend some time examining your heart. Like the angels of Heaven, are you motivated by God's glory? Ask God to give you a heart that rejoices when His will is done in your life and in the lives of others.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Generation to Generation

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Are you teaching your kids who God really is?

In Genesis 28 Isaac is at the end of his life and tells his son, "May God Almighty [or El Shaddai] bless you."

Now, El Shaddai was the name that God revealed when Isaac was miraculously born to his elderly parents. Abraham and Sarah had obviously taught Isaac about El Shaddai as he was growing up, and now Isaac was teaching the name to his son.

There are so many ways you can pass on the knowledge of God as El Shaddai—God Almighty—to your children. When a paycheck comes in or you leave for work, you can remind them that, ultimately, everything comes from God.

When you pray as a family, you can tell your kids about the way God answers prayer. And as He reveals Himself to you through the Word, you can pass along that truth, just as Abraham did to his son.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Against Anyone

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When should we forgive? Here's what Jesus said: "When you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins."

"When you stand praying," when you go to church, when you're in a prayer meeting, or when you're having your quiet time—is there some issue that comes to mind? Is there some unresolved conflict that hinders your conversation with the Lord?

"If you hold anything against anyone . . ." Now that covers all the bases. It includes every possible offense that I might be holding in my heart.

Jesus is saying, "When you come and talk to your heavenly Father, if you hold anything against anyone, before you keep on praying, forgive that person. Forgive him so that your Father may forgive your sins."

The next time you have your quiet time, start by asking God if you need to offer some forgiveness.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Greatest Hope

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: I remember talking with a man who runs an organization devoted to battling pornography. He had all kinds of strategies for moral and social reform, but he said to me, "Nancy, the older I get, the more I find myself praying for revival in the church. I know that apart from God moving in His church in revival, there is no hope of winning this battle against pornography."

I heard the same thing regarding abortion from another man involved in social change. He said, "We could change all the abortion laws in this country, but if we don't have a revival, the hearts of people will not change and the issue will remain unchanged."

You may feel powerless to change your world, but you can ask God to move in the hearts of His people in revival. And that may be the greatest contribution you could make.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Spiritual Adultery

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 23 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: If you came home and found your mate passionately hugging someone you didn't know, how would you feel? You'd be shocked, angry, rejected.

That experience would just be a small picture of the way God feels about our sin. In the Bible when God wants to tell us how serious sin really is, He often uses the picture of marital unfaithfulness.

Here's an example from Jeremiah 3: "'You have played the whore with many lovers,' declares the Lord. 'You have polluted the land with your vile whoredom, yet you refuse to be ashamed.'"

When we expect to stay close to God yet refuse to give up our sin, it's like a mate caught in adultery acting like it's no big deal. It would be as if they wanted to stay married yet continue the illicit relationship.

When you're tempted to sin today, would you remember that you're in a relationship with a Heavenly Bridegroom? Let's be faithful to Him.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Mary was an Influential Woman

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 22 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: What do you do when someone comes to you with a problem? The best thing we can do is to point the person to Jesus. That's what Mary of Nazareth did. She was at a wedding, and the host ran out of wine. Instead of trying to solve the problem herself, she pointed the servants to Jesus. "Do whatever he tells you to do," she said.

She used her influence to encourage them to obey and follow Christ. Jesus performed His first miracle that day, and the servants saw Him turn water into wine. Mary's influence allowed them to see Christ's ability.

When friends come to us with their problems, we don't need to solve every issue. Like Mary, we need to point them to Jesus and say, "Do whatever He tells you to do."

Are you pointing those around you to Christ to solve their problems? Who could you influence today to trust and obey the Lord?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

A Daily Habit

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 21 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: I know a couple that appeared to have a deep, genuine love for the Lord and a strong family. But the husband's heart had become hard and cold. He was harboring private sin for a long time, but eventually it became public. He had to admit to his wife that he'd been committing adultery.

It was a sobering reminder of why we all need to be pursuing holiness. When we're in a daily habit of repentance, it can help keep us from a pattern of sin that will destroy us. Dealing with the sin in our hearts will protect us from the big, visible sins.

Remember 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24: "Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who calls you is faithful; He will surely do it."

Are you letting God sanctify every area of your life?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

God Doesn't Love Me

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 20 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

"I haven't heard from my children in months."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When we feel rejected by other people, we can fall for a lie.

"Sometimes I even think God doesn't love me."

Nancy: Most of us would never say it out loud, but have you ever doubted God's love? If we dwell on the lie that says, "God doesn't love me," it'll lead us into bondage.

The truth is that God does love you. Would you listen to what Paul says in Romans 5? "Just at the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

If you're ever tempted to doubt God's love, the best place to look is the cross of Christ. It's the ultimate picture of love. Not just for the world. But for you.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Wash Your Heart

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

"When I was young, I was in church every time the door was open, and I still go every Sunday morning, Sunday evening, Wednesday evening . . ."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Does going to church make you right with God? I believe our churches are filled with people who keep up religious appearances, but they don't necessarily have a heart for God.

"I sure wouldn't want those people in my neighborhood . . ."

Nancy: The same was true when the prophet Jeremiah said of the nation of Israel, "This people has a defiant and rebellious heart." He wasn't describing pagans—he was talking about religious people! They performed all kinds of ceremonial cleansing, yet he told them "wash your heart from wickedness."

"I just hate people who smoke! They drive me crazy . . . "

Nancy: Sometimes an outward religious appearance covers up a sinful heart. If you've never done it, would you let God to wash your heart from wickedness through the blood of Jesus Christ?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss

A Burning House

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do you know someone who's in a dangerous situation?

"I don't know what's wrong with my sister. She's on the verge of an affair. I don't know if I should get involved. I don't know what to do."

Nancy: If you noticed that your neighbor's house was on fire in the middle of the night, you'd do whatever it would take to get their attention. You wouldn't worry about hurting their feelings. You'd pound on the door and try to get them out of the danger.

Maybe you know someone in danger. Not with a literal house on fire. But maybe you know someone who knows the truth of God's Word, yet they're toying with a dangerous, sinful situation. God may have you in a place to pound on their door.

Remember these words from James 5. "If one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins."

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

No Fruit on a Dead Tree

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 15 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

"I'm generally a good person. I make it to church when I can."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Christ calls us to something deeper and more fulfilling than just being a pretty good person. He invites us to be transformed into His image.

"I might cheat on my taxes once in a while, but I never cheat on my wife. So I look at it that it cancels each other."

Nancy: Trying to do good things apart from Christ is like gluing oranges onto a dead tree. We can try to attach all the fruit we want, but it doesn't change the tree.

In the same way, God isn't impressed by some good works tacked on to a dead person. He wants to make us alive, like a growing tree that produces real fruit.

The apostle Paul says that as "we contemplate the Lord's glory, we will be transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory which comes from the Lord."

Are you spending time with God in prayer and the Word, letting Him transform you into His image?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Insulting Words

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 14 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

"Still I just well up with emotion as I remember all the times growing up that my father used the words, 'you dummy.' Because of that, I have not honored my father."

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When we think about those who have cursed us with cruel words, it's natural to justify responding in anger.

But King David modeled a supernatural way to respond. In 2 Samuel we read about a time when someone continually yelled insults and curses at David. As King, he could've had the man killed, but his response showed his trust in God's sovereignty.

David said, "Leave him alone, and let him curse. It may be that the Lord will look on the wrong done to me, and that the Lord will repay me with good for his cursing today."

If you're haunted by words of cursing from your past, would you ask God to give you a view of His sovereignty? He can help you heal through His power.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Broken or Crushed?

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 13 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Jesus once said something interesting. He described Himself as the "stone that the builders rejected." Then He said, "Whoever falls on that stone will be broken; but on whomever it falls, it will grind him to powder." What does that mean?

It tells me that everyone will experience brokenness. Some will experience brokenness in this life by humbly giving up their own desires and letting Christ live through them. Those are the people who "fall on the stone."

Others will refuse. God may allow them to walk in pride for a while. But eventually, either in this life or the next, He'll bring down everything that exalts itself against Him. That's what Jesus meant by being ground into powder.

Have you fallen on the Stone, choosing to humbly submit your will to God's? Or are you still approaching God in pride, in danger of being crushed?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Handing God the Cup

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 12 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

(answering machine)

"Please leave your question at the tone." (beep)
"I am facing a major decision. I've got two good opportunities. How do I know what to do?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Sometimes when I'm praying over a specific decision, I symbolically place that issue in my hands, then lift my cupped hands to God. I say, "Lord I'm committing this matter to You. Please use Your Word to guide me to a wise decision."

God may bring to mind Scriptures that give insight on the situation. He may impress me to get godly counsel. He may remind me of another priority He's already given. Or, He may grant the desire, the faith, and the freedom to step out in the new venture.

Psalm 119 says, "The entrance of Your words gives light." Do you need light on your situation? Do you need direction for the tough choices of life? Open the Word of God, hand Him the issue, and ask Him for direction.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

God's Love Letter

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 09 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When I was a teenager, my dad helped me learn how to speed-read. But he said there were two things that should never be speed-read: love letters and the Bible.

Most of us wouldn't think about quickly skimming through a love letter. Instead, we would study it for every nuance of meaning.

The Bible is a love letter. The more carefully we read it, the more we'll discover God's heart for us.

If you're in the habit of rushing through the Bible, would you consider reading more thoughtfully? Pause to meditate on the things you're reading. Dwell on it, and ponder it until it becomes part of you.

That's what Joshua told the children of Israel to do. He said, "This book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it."

Why don't you spend some time today meditating on God's love letter to you?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

An Example of Holiness?

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: Do your kids see one side of you at church . . .

"Now look down at verse 25. It says that we should put away lying and speak the truth."

Nancy: . . . and another side at home?

"I just called in sick to work. Let's go shopping!"

Nancy: Parents don't usually realize how much their example affects their children. Kids know what their parents' standards are.

They notice when their parents use language at home they'd never say in public. They notice when their parents belittle each other. They know what kinds of videos parents rent and what they laugh at on TV.

If your kids grow up loving the world more than God, if they don't have a hunger for spiritual things, will it be any surprise? Will you be prepared to give an account for the way your life influenced them?

As you make choices today, would you remember that your heart for holiness is shaping the character of the next generation?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

I Can't Find the Time

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Wed, 07 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: What are the things that keep you from spending time alone with the Lord?

"It seems like something's always breaking down, or getting spilled, or blowing up around the house."

Nancy: I once sent a survey to three hundred women asking what seemed to hinder their prayer and Bible study. The number one response was:

"I just can't find the time!"

Nancy: So what do we do? In Colossians 4:2, we read, "Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful." Devoting ourselves includes devoting our time. Some women I know have found it helpful to make an appointment with God and then keep it like any other commitment.

I've discovered that if I don't make a conscious, deliberate effort to set aside time to be with the Lord, other things will always demand my attention. Why don't you look at tomorrow's schedule and make an appointment with Him?

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Horse is Broken

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Tue, 06 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: It's a beautiful thing to watch a horse that's fast and powerful, yet obedient to its master's commands. A slightest move of the reigns can immediately change a horse's direction.

But before a horse can be useful to its master, it needs to be broken. That doesn't mean that someone literally breaks its legs. But it means that its will is broken. It becomes compliant and submissive to its rider.

Before you and I can be used by our Master, we need to be broken, too. Brokenness is the shattering of my self-will so the spirit of the Lord Jesus can be released through me.

Psalm 51:17 says: "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise." You and I can choose to be broken today. Just submit yourself to His direction and will.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss

Pictures of Christ

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Mon, 05 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: You've probably read in the Old Testament about Israel wandering through the desert. They spent years traveling but couldn't stop at any clothing or shoe stores. They didn't have any grocery stores or obvious supply of food, but God provided everything they needed.

When they were thirsty, Moses struck a rock and water flowed out. When they were hungry, God sent bread from heaven. God went before them in a cloud to cover them, and He clothed them for all those years.

I think all of those provisions point us to Christ. Jesus said, "I am the bread of God come down from Heaven . . . I am the living water."

Jesus clothes us in righteousness. He is the rock of our salvation. On the cross He was struck for us, and out of Him comes a life-giving flow.

You feel like your life has been aimless? Accept the provision of Christ. He really is everything you need.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

Set Apart

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Fri, 02 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When I was growing up and my parents made unpopular decisions for our family, we'd sometimes protest, "But everyone else does it."

My parents would invariably respond, "You don't belong to everyone else; you belong to God."

Early on, I learned what it meant to be set apart. That's what the word holy means—"to be set apart, distinct, or different."

We have examples of this in the Old Testament. For example, one day was set apart as a holy Sabbath. The first part of income was set apart as the holy tithe.

In the New Testament, God set apart a group of believers to be the church. The word means "a called-out assembly."

To be set apart isn't a punishment. It's a chance to be in an intimate relationship with God Himself.

Today, would you remember that you belong to God? To be set apart from sin and set apart to God is a great privilege.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

The Price Tag

info@seekinghim.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss) — Thu, 01 Mar 2007 00:00:00 -0500

"Oh, look at this dress! I wonder how much is it?"

Nancy Leigh DeMoss: When we find something we like at the store, one of the first things we do is look at the price tag.

"Whoa! It looks really cute hanging right there on that rack."

Nancy: Wouldn't it be nice if temptation were the same way, if we understood the cost of sin right up front?

If the forbidden fruit had been rotten and crawling with worms, do you think Eve would have taken any? But Genesis tells us, "When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it."

She acted on her immediate desires without looking at the price tag.

You'll be faced with a lot of decisions today. Would you ask God to give you discernment? He can help you recognize the cost of sin, no matter how attractive it looks at the moment.

With Seeking Him, I'm Nancy Leigh DeMoss.